"Cooking Dinner in My Mother's House", Elizabeth Fong
My mother says:
measure rice by the handful
and oil by the thumb.
These are portions enough for the family.
This is what love is, she does not say:
the dance of a body over a stove,
blanching bones for broth; an apron wrung
between bloody fingers after gutting fish.
Wait for the oil to sing before you add vegetables
into the pan. Listen to what your belly
tells you it wants. I ladle soup into bowls,
holding an afternoon of my mother’s labour.
This is what love is, no one needs to say.
Outside, the sun is bathing the tomatoes on their vines,
baking the flagstones underfoot,
warming the earth in my mother’s house.